Saturday, October 18, 2008

The reasons for male masturbation

-->1. Stress
Remove the stress man can be in two ways - drink or engage in sex. And the second is possible in two versions: with a woman or with his own hand. Each, of course, chooses what it closer. In favor of masturbation could play a factor less power and energy: went to the toilet, up a unit, a few minutes - and stress as it is not.What if this is your favorite? Try to gently explain to him that you perfectly understand: his work is related to stress, and you'll be happy to help him forget about them.
Show that while you take care not for their own pleasure, but about how to do it well. Otherwise, the man simply used to masturbation, and using it will not only remove the stress. Masturbation completely replace you!
2. The wife has become not interesting
After the wedding you score a dozen extra kilo, using cosmetics only when going to work, go to an apartment in a dressing gown, taking a shower the morning, but not before going to bed - all this in one way or another affects your relationship. Male sex is still wanted, but no longer with you.Then he would buy erotic magazines and videos are often long and retire in a toilet with a fresh number «Playboy». Thus the case could end and change to other women.To the question "What do I do?" - The answer is simple. You do not need to calm down and chill. The main reason for adultery and divorce - it absorbs when commonness passion and romance.
3. Not enough sex
Actually, quite rare. Usually women do not have enough sex: male, making his case sleeps, and the woman sometimes alone reaches orgasm. But it is the opposite: When a man wants a daily basis, and a wife - only from time to time. Of course, when feel like, but you can not, it would still like something you want to be. Therefore, output becomes masturbation.First, you do not notice, then start guessing. And when suddenly catch him for this occupation - feel free. You can not ask him about the reasons for such behavior, but it is inconvenient even start this topic.Because if you understand that do not meet the man, try to give him greater pleasure, apply different poses, (for example, the lubrication to increase the duration of sex).
4. I do not want to strain
Or, in other words, the cause of masturbation can be a basic laziness. I already wrote above that, for the most part, sex for men - it is really only the introduction, breeding and not more. Because this man thinks, why should stretch to take great pleasure to partner than yourself, if you can just masturbate?Eventually, after the «sex» no escort and hug does not need - you can even boldly roll awry and sleep: none and could not say.The reason for such behavior - psychological, why fix it rather difficult. How to explain that in practice, that no masturbation does not replace him sex with you.
5. It can not get satisfaction from sex
Again psychiatric problem. In fact, only a fiction that there is no pleasure from sex and masturbation from - it is. Reasons for quite simple: the small size of a member, self-doubt, some kind of internal resentment.All of this leads to insularity, looped on their own inferiority, and, eventually, marriage with the first woman who shows him sympathy, and will worry about it.
What should I do? Three instances. Or try to change it, to show him what he is a good man, use new posture, do in bed all he wants, or to accept everything as is and calm down. Or simply to part with such a man.
6. Thinks that this can lose weight
Yes, this really is one of the reasons. One of my friend somewhere subtracted that 5 minutes of masturbation replaces the half-hour sessions in the gym. And he somehow has estimated (based on time spent in «occupation» calories) that if he would masturbate three times a day for a month, dropping 12 kilograms.Of course, a man who believes in such amazing properties of masturbation, did not tell his wife what really is to her surprise her new figure. But at the time of the training he certainly would not force his wife to meet.Therefore, it remains the only advice is, if not convince the mountain-man absurd in its class, then at least some way to wait for some time until he is satisfied the futility of masturbation as a means of slimming.
7. It is in the order of things
The most interesting - it is this paragraph. The man believed that he should masturbate. As well as eat and drink. Well, this really his nature, that there can you do? The woman, of course, does not understand this logic. It masturbation - this is a sign, if not treason, its (female) imperfections in the eyes of her husband. Explain to him that he was not human, like nail computer.Because in this case, use his hobby to the benefit of your relationship. Say what you like to watch how he masturbate, and you'll be happy to join him. In the end, look at this as one of the sex games, incredibly excitation and unusual.
8. I want another woman, but do not want to betray
But if he wants something new that could not give his wife, he could find a simple solution. You can masturbate, looking at photos or video wish them women - and even presenting at this moment that he was doing it. Such treason here without treason.It is hardly a woman in this case should be done. The man left no walks - Why extra challenge? The only negative - there is some likelihood that such a «sex» over time become more like him than normal, or treason will be real.
9. It wants sex, but close nobody
When a man «wanted», he tries as something to satisfy his desire. For example, if you go to work earlier than he wake up, the husband, sensing the morning erection can safely masturbate in the shower and sing the anthem favorite football team. Of course, this is not a trend or disease, as usual incontinence.Unlike most previous cases, to fight this senseless. And it is not necessary. Such a man is sure of himself, he understands that masturbation - it temporarily. Just because the number of women do not. And if there is, then masturbation he did not need.
10. Masturbation as a workout
Yes, the boy masturbate also because in a way he trains for the transition to adult life. Some men, reading a manual on masturbation (there are, do not be surprised), are beginning to simulate all kinds of postures. So accustomed to this that continue to do so, and adults. Roughly speaking, any news that the man tries to imagine, and then it is with his beloved.To prevent this from happening, attitude towards sex, not only as physiological needs, but also as a joining of two hearts. You should not just have sex - you have to learn to speak the language of sex and desire. After all, sex - it is a dialogged of two bodies and hearts, this game and passion. Sex - it is life itself!
The main thing to remember, to avoid health problems need time to see a doctor, who will pick up your good health drugs.

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